Originally Posted By: findingself


So what if H does try to be physical...

Also thinking of another 180...there has always been stress around unfinished projects around the house. H works crazy amount of hours and is away a lot and does not want to do these things on weekend though he does not hire someone else to do them either.

Thinking of hiring non-family members and doing some of the things myself to check them off the list...ideas on this?



So need advice on these two things along with ...

Do I buy a gift from 17 month old s for H's birthday...typiocally do..


ME:33 H:34
S: 18 months

BD/H left 2/10/2013
14 years together
9 married