Thanks for all the positive comments, I really need them. This has been a long and tiring struggle. I'm constantly re-reading portions of the book that I didn't really get the first time that I read it. But answer this for me. Step #3 is asking for what you want. If I ask for something and she agrees to it, (such as doing some things together or talking more) is that still considered pursuing? I see it as a positive if we are able to talk more or spend some time together. Let me know if my thinking is off. It is really hard for me not to over think everything.
Me-47 WAW-42 D-16 S-14 M-22 yrs T-19 yrs ILYBNILWY-3 years ago. Full Story and original posts: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...066#Post1781066