Thanks, JJ. You, and others, are right that I shouldn't be too focused on the statistics. Just knowing them, though, helps ground me. I'm okay if I learn it's rare to remarry. The couple rough odds quoted are actually encouraging. It suggests that it's somewhat uncommon, but can happen. I know I still want a reconciliation, so this helps with the path forward.
But you're also right that working on me is something I need to continue with, independent of the path. I have been settling into a new routine and developing positive and constructive outlooks. It's a struggle.
H: 38 xW: 38 M: 16 T: 18 S: 9 BD: 2/2012 W moved out 4/2012 D: 11/2012