Thanks, JJ. You, and others, are right that I shouldn't be too focused on the statistics. Just knowing them, though, helps ground me. I'm okay if I learn it's rare to remarry. The couple rough odds quoted are actually encouraging. It suggests that it's somewhat uncommon, but can happen. I know I still want a reconciliation, so this helps with the path forward.

But you're also right that working on me is something I need to continue with, independent of the path. I have been settling into a new routine and developing positive and constructive outlooks. It's a struggle.


H: 38 xW: 38
M: 16 T: 18
S: 9
BD: 2/2012
W moved out 4/2012
D: 11/2012