Italy, I get what you're saying and doing. For what it's worth, I think you're doing well and figuring things out that work for you.
Continue to seek God's guidance and try not to answer back immediately. Give it some time between the weird stuff
Helping him to pack and acting like you're fine are absolutely the best way to go, BTW.
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."