Here we go loopty loo. Here we go loopty li.

[Raine]

snodderly thank you so much. It's a relief to have had the conversation and to have it over with. You comment let me recall a few more things. The mind reading has come up multiple times. Today he said that he would have been there for me, and that he was, that he always knew what things were going on with me. I told him, yes, because I told you everything. And I did. Absolutely everything, probably to a fault.

He has said to me multiple times that I can read people so well, that I can walk into a situation and just know what is going on, but not him. It just sounds like a way to take the blame off of himself for not communicating and holding it all in. I always thought he was being honest and open with me. I had no need to analyze him before this.

I told him that I trust him in his decision making with the kids, money, etc. That I trust his judgement and that he will make good decisions, that he doesn't need me to make decisions for him. Saying that, I said he could run things by me anytime, and that he has always been my sounding board. He said he remembered that. I'm assuming it's pretty apparent to him that I don't talk to him about me or ask him his advice anymore or really talk to him about anything.