Be careful not to read too many books. All of sudden you become the expert and might want to start telling your H how this can be fixed. Unfortunately it's the last thing thy want to hear from you. I learned this the hard way
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it