I am glad you came out to us and told us that you havent been perfect. What is being asked on DB is the impossible and if it makes you feel better hasnt gotten me any closer to the results I am looking for.
My H girlfriend gave my girls matching sister necklaces for Christmas. YUCK!! I hate her she makes me sick. I hate him. I am talking about both your h and mine and both OW.
I have felt like crap the past few days myself and what I always come back to is do more self care. For me go to another alanon meeting, more yoga, another therapy appointment, have the sitter come help me at bed/bath/dinner.
I know money is tight but our kids need us to be healthy and strong and that requires us to spend money on ourselves.
For what you have written about H family i find it hard to believe that they have fully embraced OW just that they dont want to isolate your H from the family.
Your kids will know the truth. They will know that you were the hero. Dont give up!!
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13
