Spartan, you handled the situation with your daughter really well. I can't even imagine how hard it must be.
I also see that you are in a good emotional place. That's awesome.
I disagree that you need to tell people to stop telling you about your W's actions. I think these are signs you need to see and listen to. I ignored the signs I got many, many times, and I don't like where I ended up. To me, knowledge is power--the power to make the right decisions.
