Hey T, just got a chance to catch up on what's going on in your world, and as I have been reading this I hear my C's voice saying, "Depression, and low self esteem." Especially in the post about your W "being jealous of the other mom." Sounds like your W is still in a very painful place. I'll tell you what he (my C) told me, keep up with the validations and positive affirmations, after all this is NOT about you, but her not feeling worthy.

I know it's hard but keep being patient and building her up. You are doing awesome T, you are just amazing, keep going, unconditional love is hard but, it's totally worth it!