Journaling Feb 26

My parents were visiting for the past week. Last night my wife asked what we talked about. I told her that I didn't really discuss our relationship with my parents. She knows that I did speak to them about a month ago when I was really in the dumps.

She told me that when my mom was kissing her goodbye, my mom whispered to her that "she hoped we could fix our problems". My wife said that things between us was fine. I made a comment that they are not fine, but only OK. My wife looked at me, like what do I mean they are not fine. She asked me what wasn't fine? I declined to answer, and instead ask her, "you tell me?" She said nothing.

Does she really think things are fine? We are cordial and polite to each other, but things are definitely not fine.

Meanwhile, due to my GAL I will be home late on Thursday and Friday. My wife is going to drastic measures to try to line up a baby-sitter for Friday night so that she can go out. This is "things are fine" to her?


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