Retouvaille is a weekend that is put on by the Catholic Church. They have them all over the country as while as world wide. You don't have to be Catholic or even Christian to attend. I have not been, but have heard unbelievable things. 3 couples who went through the program and a priest lead the weekend and talk about their stories. Like I said, I haven't been, but hear that it is about communication and letting go of the past and starting over. W and I had really been turning the corner I feel last week. Well I blew that Monday afternoon when i lost my temper and said something I shouldn't have. AS, who gives great advice and has been to retroV, thought it was too soon for W and I. I didn't agree at first because of how things were going, but after Monday I'm not sure if I'm ready. Since we already signed up, I figured I'd let her make the choice as we get closer and just give her complete space till then. I feel like i did the right thing by telling her that. Thanks
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it