Originally Posted By: SM34
Tallula I will think about this and see what I come up with.

Mr bond, it was suggested that I read the book [*] so I googled it and found the site. Had a little reqd to see what they say and whether it fits me. And I think it does..

FINISH the book before you make conclusions and CHOOSE ONE approach for...I don't know..ONE month??


Isnt that what I shouod be doing? I mean I need to GAL too but I want to examine my character and see how I got into this mess. Then I can change for the better as a spouse. No?

Yes she said he is not going anywhere but of course she will say that.
Last night she was going to OM house for a couple nights. 20 mins ago she messaged me that she is picking up D3 from school becuase she is NOT going to OM anymore. Dont believe anything they say, right?

Seriously though. What do u think of the concepts of mr nice guy? I mean is it true that being too 'nice' is what landed all of us here?



Seriously?

SURE That's it! You found the secret to EVERYONE'S PROBLEMS!! THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU...

(what the he!! were WE FOOLS doing posting here for years?? We acted like different marriages had different problems (???!!!) with some aspects in common, when all this time it was so simple!

All it took was someone SMART ENOUGH - like YOU, to solve it all...)



sheer brilliance.