Bblake1968,
I never wanted to come off as bitter but if I did I guess I still have plenty to work on. I was just being realistic because I know how much money she will be getting and with all the bills I don’t think it can be done within her budget.

When I looked at myself I did identify the things I never liked about me, and what she identified as issues and made 180’s on them. I feel good about that.

Grizz,
I know how hard it is not to ask how she feels and to “act as if everything is good”. It tough not to mind read when she is chatting with friends.

Doing my best to continue detaching, keeping a PMA, giving distance and having fun with my boys!


H 37
WAW 32
S 4 (Autistic)
S 2
Together 11 years
Married 6
Bombshell Dec 1 2012
House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.