Sam, Don't beat yourself up. You did the right thing by telling her that your lawyer would be reviewing any documents before you signed them. Your wife tried every angle to get you to agree to sign the papers...don't sign them until your lawyer reviews them.
As for the house, you've got time to make a decision on that. Your wife is still in a very selfish mode and you saw how quickly sent went from being sorry about your grandmother to her being selfish and wanting you to do what she wanted.
Step back and allow her to wallow in her own stew pot for a while. She needs to understand that you are not going to be bullied into doing what she wants this time. She needs to understand that marriage is a two way street and that assets have to be divided when the times comes for a divorce.
Hang in there.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
