Still working on me

[sweetbabyred]

Wow, I've been too busy to post on here for over a week, but I have been trying to keep up with other sitches.

School is crazy. I don't know what I was thinking to choose to go full time this semester. I don't care about a 4.0 this semester, I just want to pass!

Work has slowly picked up. I've worked a few more singles events and some larger events with several of my friends. This events keep my mind occupied and I always have a few people to talk to, so I can't complain.

On Monday am, I sent H an email asking him to sign copies of our 2010 and 2011 tax forms and email them back to me as I need them to qualify for a private student loan. Around 11:30pm last night I got a text saying he'd do it today if that was ok. Better late than never, so I didn't reply. 15 minutes later i get a text "????". So even though he responds on his own time to me, he expects me to get right back with him.

I waited a bit and said ok. He asked if I was busy and I said I was. H said "nevermind. good night". a few minutes later he asked me to call him when I had a chance to go over one point. I said ok.

At 12:30 he texts, saying that it's late now, so I can call him some other time. I tell him I'm busy with work and school and I'll contact him in the next day or two. That gets me a response that obviously I hate him and while he doesn't like that, it's good for me.

I remained calm and told him I wasn't sure why he thought that, but that I didn't want to have any discussions late at night and I was busy with deadlines. His last message said that talking to him was never a problem before and the whole conversation would have been quicker than sending texts back and forth.

It was funny, because he said good night several times and I'd go to sleep, but he'd write me back within 10 minutes or so.

H seems angry about something, but I don't think it's anything I've done.

He texted me about an hour ago asking about signing the forms, so I explained again why I needed them, pointing out that we still hadn't filed for this year.

H then apologized for last night. My response: "thanks. I've realized that I'm not a priority for you anymore and I can't keep dropping everything for you. That is what a wife does and that's not how you see me. If you only want to communicate about finances, then I'd prefer to do it during business hours."

I've told him several times that I didn't like late night conversations because they interrupt my sleep, so I was just restating my boundary.

No response from him yet and still no signed forms.