Thanks AS. Going back to the previous discussion. I would like to speak with her before she leaves. You stated you said to your wife...

Originally Posted By: AnotherStander
"well I would rather you stay here and work on the M with me, but most of all I want you to be happy and if you feel that leaving is what will make you happy then I support your decision and will help in whatever way I can."


Should I let her know that I am still willing to work on the relationship, but will be more than willing to be her friend? Or should I stick to what you said? I'm tempted to say something like "if you want to work on the relationship, things will be better this time around. But, if not, I'll accept that it is over and be your friend." Would this be okay, or should I not mention the "things will be better part?"

I would appreciate AnotherStander's feedback, but would also appreciate anyone else who would like to comment.