Compliments & Passive Aggressiveness..Work to do!

[MrBond]

"Had a little reqd to see what they say and whether it fits me. And I think it does.."

You said that about all of the things you've read, or at least have chosen to pick what you "think" applies only to you. Oftentimes these plans conflict with one another which is why you haven't been able to move forward.

"Isnt that what I shouod be doing? I mean I need to GAL too but I want to examine my character and see how I got into this mess."

of course that's fine. However you're doing so much of that you stopped working on the GAL and actual doing.

"Seriously though. What do u think of the concepts of mr nice guy? I mean is it true that being too 'nice' is what landed all of us here?"

Of course not. That's the problem with things like the pill guy and the [*] philosophy. Every situation is different despite what they would like you to believe. In fact, studies have shown that A's happen all the time in marriages where everything is great. Some women like the "nice guy" while others want to be challenged. You can't apply a one-size-fits-all solution to ALL women. Just like how there are different types of men. Not all women are attracted to the 'bad boy' and vice versa. You're just confusing yourself.