Originally Posted By: SM34
Tallula I will think about this and see what I come up with.

Mr bond, it was suggested that I read the book [*] so I googled it and found the site. Had a little reqd to see what they say and whether it fits me. And I think it does..

Isnt that what I shouod be doing? I mean I need to GAL too but I want to examine my character and see how I got into this mess. Then I can change for the better as a spouse. No?



Yes, DB teaches us to work on ourselves ("our side of the street.") For each of us, the ideal way to do that will fall somewhere along the "Introspection" vs. "Action" continuum.

I think what people are trying to tell you, SM, is that they have a strong hunch you don't have a problem with the "introspection" part. wink


Starsky

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