Tallula I will think about this and see what I come up with.

Mr bond, it was suggested that I read the book [*] so I googled it and found the site. Had a little reqd to see what they say and whether it fits me. And I think it does..

Isnt that what I shouod be doing? I mean I need to GAL too but I want to examine my character and see how I got into this mess. Then I can change for the better as a spouse. No?

Yes she said he is not going anywhere but of course she will say that. Last night she was going to OM house for a couple nights. 20 mins ago she messaged me that she is picking up D3 from school becuase she is NOT going to OM anymore. Dont believe anything they say, right?

Seriously though. What do u think of the concepts of mr nice guy? I mean is it true that being too 'nice' is what landed all of us here?

Also as far as MIL everything I quote from her is more han one month old. I stopped discussing my issues with her because I know she talks to my w and I dont want to have anything come back and bite me in the butt.


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Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017