Wow... I'm surprised that my last post got so many replies. Both here and on the newcomers board.

I do have transparency Bill. W has actually been really good about that. That has not been the problem. The transparency let me to look at old phone records from the months of our S, thinking that I could handle what I found. I was wrong. 25 is right, that was self inflicted. No doubt.

Anyway, I want to spend more time than I have to respond to everyone, so I will come back, hopefully in the next day or two.

Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce