Hello, It takes time to register but I am getting your point. When one is locked in the midst of adverse circumstances, it is difficult to see honestly what is going on all around. Thank you to all for your patience and understanding, I gotta get through this ordeal somehow. Things are bad, whether they get worse is up to me.
I have minimized communication with W to the bare essentials as suggested here. We only send emails every 2-3 days about the visits. (Well, she complained about his sleeves being wet, and my putting the diaper backwards, etc...)
Question 1 : W said she would see about the driving (probably ask her L what to do), and since she hasn't said anything yet -because I do the driving- should I bring it up? To make her understand it is not ok, and I am just waiting for her to say something? In case she says she won't drive, can I say something like : "I'll pick S up, if you want him back, you come get him"?
Question 2 : Our marriage anniversary is coming up soon. What should I do? Card, nothing, flowers, letter, short email? I know the stove is hot, and only time will make it cool down, but still..
Have a good evening y'all, Bruce
Ignore the anniversary; that is pursuing. Act happy and upbeat no matter what. It'll drive her bonkers.
