Wow, that text convo reminded me so much how I would text my W or talk to her about what she is doing. I have learned that is the owrst thing possible. We dont think they see that, but I can assure you they do. It becomes extremly aggrovating and reminds the WAS of why they want out in the first place. i have been much better about that lately. As a matter of fact my W called last night to tell me plans had change for her upcoming trip to Fla. She said she had good news and bad news. When she was done I said that was good news and good news. Her tone of voive and reaction were funny. She just expected I would get angry and upset that she was changing the plans. I've learned what I need to fix for me. Now its just about doing it
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it