I am in a common situation. If all goes accordingly, I will be a divorced mother of four.
I didn't choose this life, but you know what? It is out of my control. I am choosing to let STBX go and I have forgiven him. It is freeing.
What held me back? Fear. I am letting go of the fear and you know what? It's going to be okay. You will learn to appreciate little things in life. God will put the most interesting people in your life. He let's you know everything is going to be okay, regardless of the outcome.
Hang in there. It [censored]!!
Ms Toad
Me: 49 H: 48 Daughters: 22,20,17 & 15 Moved out: 1/12 H filed for divorce: 9/12 OW discovery: 9/12 Finances settled: 2/13 Divorce final: 4/13
