Help & Advice needed please Thread 2

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Thanks adinva I will take this advice. So incredibly sad though that for 9 years we have shared and done so much - and now we are at a point where we can't even say Happy Anniversary.

I don't want to sound like the victim but sometimes I feel like a Husband who has beaten/abused their Wife. I told my Wife I loved her morning, noon and night. Just so very sad.