Compliments & Passive Aggressiveness..Work to do!

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You are right guys. I need to start the GAL more. Going out with friends here and there is not enough.

Last night I downloaded the meetup.com app onto my phone and found lots of things that I can do around town.

My problem with GAL is that it cuts into daughter time =( By the time she is in bed, the only GAL options are BARS and CLUBS which I do NOT enjoy much.

Its a sad day today. W told me that her best friend from childhood has stopped talking to her. Also, in my last post I took a stand against W taking D3 to her friends house who is also OM sister in law. Well they had a fall out for the same reason I had told my wife. "You never care to take D3 to her house to play with her daughters. Suddenly today it is important?". So her friend accused her of only wanting to come over and bring D3 because OM is there, and not because she cares about a play date, and pointed out that she has never brought D3 over for a play date on a week day, ever.

Starsky, if you are reading this, I know exactly how you feel now. You had said before that the hardest thing you had to do was watch your W, the woman you love, self destruct. I believe my W is starting the self destruct sequence and all I can do is stand by until no one is left in her life except OM.

I take over my new business location on Friday. Planning a big Grand opening party to invite lots of customers to the new location. That will probably be not this Sunday but the following one. Is that a GAL activity?

On meetup.com I found several things I liked and clicked on "Join Group" but have to wait for mods to accept. I actually did that BEFORE I read all of your comments since I was not on here last night. I am trying to lay off a little and take a little break.

Will try to pop in to read comments on my thread every day, but will probably not post much for a little while. Lets see what happens over the next few days.