thanks beingme........
yes, much of his behaviour would have been outrageous to him before...but maybe you are right.....i'll never know

i am just sick of analyzing all that he does

this is his journey and he is choosing to take it

what is left for me is to decide how long i put up with it

btw, i think cs was just being cheeky about canada.......he has a smart mouth (but a kind hear)

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