Perhaps you should check out and let her feel the full responsibility of being a single mom. All of it.

When I say check out. I mean. Go take a break away from everyone and get all your ducks in a row.

Let her run the house, children, everything.

You take a break to replenish the jets for the upcoming days. Make sure your children understand it is to gain some well needed rest and is temporary.

Are you going to push for full custody of the children and child support ?

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