Just a thought, re the MLCers cool attitudes ... they were aware of wanting to leave (since they were having affairs, etc.) whereas we, the LBSers learn about it on BD, and it's very new for us. We will probably take as long to get over it all (maybe longer), as they had having the affairs. They are detached (even from their kids) because they've had a lot of time to justify their actions. So, on BD, they are ready to leave, while we are left wondering WTF is going on here?

Does this make sense?

Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
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