Help & Advice needed please Thread 2

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Thank you for all the new replies; adinva, Spartan, Inside Out & Floyd Man - they are very much appreciated and helpful...

I am trying to be as strong as I can be for my Son - all of this just all seems to have come together... It's also our 9th Wedding Anniversary today... I know I shouldn't but I do wonder if it has even crossed her mind.

Our Son seems ok - he still gets very upset; when he's with me he misses his Mum and vice versa. There's almost 2 sides to him at the moment.

When I have him he's the boy I know - kind hearted and helpful my Wife seems to have this monster that has temper tantrums and tells her too "f off" etc - it's really can't be nice for her. I have tried talking too him and telling him its unacceptable...

Will be seeing W tonight as we have a Parents Evening together to find out how he's doing at school... should be interesting.

My 180s are still in full effect - I have complete control over all of my finances, the house is spotless and I haven't got angry with W in a long time (not that I see her much).

The GAL is going ok but has been disrupted by my Fathers death - hopefully after his funeral on Friday I can continue - it is somewhat difficult at the moment as I don't have a car and really can't afford one for the time being...