Thoughts, love and prayers to you and your kids Intact.
It is like a flip of a switch how life changes. Your sitch is like mine in that way. it was false. Though you will realize with hindsight where the dysfunction was. If they can't be honest with themselves, they won't be honest with you.
I lost my dad suddenly 19 years ago. He adored my wife (then fiancé). But you know what? I still feel him with me. I feel him guide me with my kids and I appreciate that everyday. Your dad may be gone from here, but he is always with you.
Stay strong pal.


M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.