I have seen the same thing with W only wanting to talk to friends who are divorced or are going through a divorce. Sandi pointed out to me that WAS does not want to talk to anyone that is promarriage. They only want to talk to people who will agree with their decisions. Just 2 days ago I saw W texting one of these friends and it really got to me. I pouted because I was hurt that other people knew more about what she was thinking than I did. I told her this. Big mistake. The coldness returned in full force. As many on here pointed out to me, what does it matter who she is talking to? She needs to vent just as much as you do. What I finally asked myself was, " does it really surprise me that she wants to talk to people who agree with her decisions?" It definitely does not. But I will admit that it still hurts to think that other people know more about what she is thinking than I do.
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.