Exactly - they drive the train - and sometimes it's the crazy train - I really will sing that song out loud
I've gotten pretty good at argument avoidance - and this is a BIG feat for me b/c I tend to be the one that needs to be right (hey - at least I realize it!)
He hasn't called me out on it yet. Actually, several times when I remain calm and don't say my typical smarta$$ comments, he will apologize, if it was an argument that he made more than it needed to be. (except for the one the other day about how I still couldn't ask in a 'nice' way - it's on my other thread - I totally deserved an apology for that crap)
