My H hasn't brought up D at all and is happy to remain separated. I am good with that . For now anyway.
The one time he did bring it up, not really but close, I reminded him that I was not the one who was driving this train....he got quiet after that reminder.
My H has backed off of legal separation, mediation etc etc. I cant say whether he is coming back, but our friendship thus far has begun to rebuild trust in each other.
Love...just ignore the barbs when he gets angry, or say I agree and switch subject. Or " I can see your point" is a fave of mine when I disagree but whatever the convo is it is not worth an argument lol. Unfortunately, H knows me too well and calls me out on it, so can't hide behind it anymore.
. For now anyway.