Finally getting it after three months...

[jp787]

I asked why and that it scared me. Then if she would open one that was linked to our main account, all hers but no cost and easy transferability, she said no she wanted her own, not tied to ours. I said it would cost and she said she would look at her options. i finally thought I am pushing her away with what i was saying so i switched gears and said do whatever you need, no problem. I said i would try my hardest to get her money and she had the right to do w/e she wanted. Problem is we dont have any extra money, she left me with doing all the financial part and she makes more money than I do, so she thinks she should get spending money, which I totally agree, but it just isnt there.