I am in agreement with Jayhawk1970, as a LBS whose W walked out on me with complaints that I controlled her and our money, didn't listen to her opinions etc. It does seem funny now that while she has stated she has no love for me and wants to do her own things, she is still leaving it up to me to do the selling of our houses, changing the names on the car registrations and deal with all the money issues. Same things I did before the BD, so the reality is she doesn't know how, when or why to do these things herself. My 180 is to not do them, let her do them. She can set up times with the bank to change the mortgage, or sell the house, or get valuations. She can go to the Dept of Transport and organise what paperwork needs to be filed for name changing.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
