Truth is, that title (or talent) was a hindrance in the MR b/c it hinted at being an excuse to go against what was advised......like stepping back, don't bring up R talk, don't try to fix your W, etc.
This is good advice. I was able to figure this out on my own, but, I do wish I'd have found this site a year ago, if only to tell me about the books.
The only other site I found, while they do have an MLC and Reconciliation section, and discuss EA & PA's, seemed to be very much pro-divorce and that's not what I wanted. Though, I did find out about Mort Fertel thru them, so it's not all bad...
