My plan? 1. Talked to my attorney already and i know my options. Adultery in my state is a crime and also bars her from alimony. 2. Finances are in good standing. I have a plan to shut off debit, credit and checking before I confront her. From that point forward, any grocery or shopping for the kids will be done with cash. H “fun” money comes from H own account. 3. I will consult a DB coach for boundaries 4. I will consult a DB coach for help with the best path forward with household finances 5. I need to make a decision on whether or not I ask her to leave the house. That may be a temporary feel good for me but I believe the best chance for DB is keeping her in the house. Need advice on that. 6. I will propose Retrovaille 7. Transparency will be the big issue. It must include cell phone etc. She has been using Word with Friends to sext him. 8. The one thing that I have learned is to like who I am and GAL over the past 8 weeks. It feels great. I have already been working on me. What am I missing?
