Jayhawk - wow, that was a nice conversation to have on Valentines Day. And it's ok, we are all negative sometimes, and I've seen lots of people say you will know whe YOU are done.
AS - I was expecting a 2x4 because I was even having thoughts of another person. I have thought about whether he is having an A as well, but I don't know. And I suppose it doens't really matter overall, if he can eventually be done. But from his comments about not having had hugs etc from opposite sex, I'm kind of doubting it. Thanks for the advice - it is certainly helpful!
Inside Out - yes, I believe that was your post that I was talking about earlier. You and H switch places? That has got to be akward. Even more akward if he makes comments like that...wow.
The thing with H is he has NEVER used the D word.
When he gets angry with me, which is usually because he thinks I am up to something with someone else or when we have had a disagreement, he will say things like 'you need to think about whether you want to stay in the house or sell' or 'how we will divide things up' or 'I think we can handle this as adults'.
I have no doubt that he has no idea with the extent of it when a child is involved. He was divorced once before but no children, and no lawyers.
He for sure doesn't have money for a lawyer - not that I do lol. But I don't think he understands the extent of all this.
But anyway, I think it says something that he only brings it up when he gets angry.
