The only reason I think she is playing games is because she will say something to me one minute and then at the last second change her mind on me.
She's not playing games. WAS's are almost always confused and in turmoil even if they look calm and cool on the outside. They say and do things that are contradictory, they're not doing it intentionally, it's just a reflection on what's going on inside and it's why the DB rule says not to believe anything they say and only half of what they do.