Thank you. I have over the last couple of months try to understand what he had been going through, but yes it's hard to imagine. I never meant to hurt him.

so my h has decided he will live on his own for at least 2 mths which makes sense however he wants to do a joint custody do every other weekend and tues/we'd night. I can't give up my kids this much. It's too much for me. I don't know what's fair, but it can't be this.

I know this is right, but wow this is a struggle. I feel since this is the second time he's leaving again this must be the end. I don't know where to go from here. Do I start dbing again? Do I just walk away and accept that this is the end.


H:37
W:37
M:10 years
D:7&5
Bomb:9/7/12. H moves out
H moved back 12/23/12-not going well
Retrouvaille 1/18
H moving out again 3/14