Thanks AS!
I agree that I don't think it can make it worse. I've also already registered us.
She is going to Florida from Sunday-Friday. I told her that from today to next Friday that I would not contact her except to call I night and tell my son goodnight.
I figured to give complete space for the next few weeks and I'll let her decide to go or not. I AM NOT going to bring retrov up again to her or any other relationship talk. She knows when it is and if she still wants to go she will tell me.
Your thoughts on me handling that way?


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it