I guess my thoughts are, can it make things worse?
It won't make things worse I don't think, and it might make things better, but I don't think it'll turn the M around. The key to success in RetroV is sticking with the daily dialoging and going to all the followup sessions. The weekend event is really just the first step of the process. I think if people go too soon there's little chance they'll stick with the dialoging and followups.
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We both do agree that better communication between us would definitely help with co-parenting. You've been, I haven't. What are your thoughts based on that?
It is much more focused on saving marriages than I expected. Going in I said something similar to your W- that even if our M was doomed it would he helpful in teaching us how to communicate better as coparents. But once in it I realized it is 100% focused on saving marriages.