Wife says not in love; stays and acts happy

[Ready2Quit]

Sailing you need to stop snooping. Believe me when I tell you this, Been there done that! I could not stop myself from the snooping. Checked his phone records, emails, everytime I could I was snooping, 5 yers of it. WHenever I found something it hurt so much but I could not stop. After reading the text message back and forth between them about how they met up and she gave him a BJ and how much he enjoyed it, blah, blah, blah. I had a mini breakdown. I was like, why am I doing this to myself, I am going to drive myself over the edge.

I FINALLY found the strength to stop all that BS. I don't look at her facebook, or his, no phone records, don't look at his cell, nothing. Oh its hard, very hard, but I know I am going to find something so I just don't look. why do that to myself again? Think long and hard before you snoop again and just think about how you feel when you read that stufff, how it hurts, don't do it to yourself. I am in a much better place for my own peace of mind. I have not snooped for two months! ( sound like an AA member) and I am much better for it!