Sitting in the back seat!

[Occy01]

Thanks for your reply!!

I cant believe how many of us are in the same situation. My wife is the same way rushing to get her own house and seems very firm in her choice to leave despite all my recent changes.

MC says ( and i agree!!) that she shouldn´t rush things. Such big decisions shouldn´t be made in a hurry. But then I think that she´s probably being planning this for a long while, so for her its not ´rushing blindly ahead´. Sometimes I even think that her getting her own house might not be all bad. Gives her space and time, gives me space and time to get myself and my thoughts together....just have to make sure that the lines of communication stay open!!! Don´t want to create an óut of sight out of mind´ scenario where we just don´t mee or talk at all!!