Well... I guess you could add mine into this as well...
My W is diabetic and her meds would often cause issues with her desire to ML. It wasn't rare for us to go weeks in between ML during the last few years. At least she used her meds as the reason. Then, in late 2011, ML was more frequent, right up to BD (Thanksgiving weekend 2011). After that, we didn't ML for months - probably May 2012. After that it wasn't until September, then it was like every other day until November and then it was like a switch got flipped - back to nothing again...
And as AS said, stop snooping. There's nothing you can do about it and the snooping is doing far more damage to you than you know right now. Speaking from experience here...
