I continue being tested by my H's stubbornness. He wrote a message with his comments about each one of my expenses. One of the things he said was "Overall, I thought a few of your expense estimates were conservative, and some of the expense seemed to be personal in nature (for example, I don’t think Maintenance income is intended to cover church and vacations)." Then he said, "I’m still concerned about the six year potential duration which probably wouldn’t be fair if I had to pay."
He does not understand how alimony works. My reply was that he should probably talk to the L, who knows about the legality of things. He hasn't replied yet. I really want to keep these conversations between the two of us, but I think that first, he needs to talk to a L.
I really can't wait to get this over with. I have completely lost all the interest in my M or being with my H. Weird how this happened. Maybe it's too much hurt and betrayal. Otherwise, I really don't understand. Maybe I just connected with my true self and realized he needs to leave my life so I can realize my true potential.
I'm so excited about my book! I also started a blog about spirituality...