Longshanks, I do need to work on myself more. I also agree that a "friend" would not treat me the way she has recently. I posted earlier that I am not sure if I trust my W. there was alot more to this but the point is if you don't have trust then you can't have a M or friendship. Also, not sure if you were just speaking in generalities but my W has not cheated (that I know of. No evidence of it and I have searched). Just wanted to clear that up since the last part of your post was eluding to affairs/cheating. I do appreciate your insight and input. Thank you for posting.
Yes, thanks. I been there and done that. I was trying to be simple so you could get your mind to detach.
"Married Man's Sex Life Primer" by Athol Kay , is an approach of building and maintaining sexual attraction within existing relationships. I think this is good info for many of us.
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