tiredndrained, I am not suggesting a separation, yet I will tell you that when my W and I separated it did help, a lot. Her not being at home hurts and I miss her so much AND we dont fight nearly as much. It gave me space I need so that I can breathe and not focus on her quit as much. I think it has helped her a lot also. There are many positives and negatives, but for us it has helped. I honestly think for us it was needed. One positive for you is that you would not know when H leaves and comes home, that sounds so stressful. As I said, I am not suggesting a S, but it has helped mt sitch. Good luck and my prays are with you.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
