NLW, I asked before and don't remember the answer. Your kids know they don't have to listen to his abuse, don't they?

Are they getting professional help with this? It's not the D that hurts the kids, it's this stuff.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss