I tend to look at it as I've met a new person and am trying to get to know her - actually, as the time has progressed, there seem to have been several versions of her. It's not easy since this person already has a bias against me to begin with. And here's the kicker - she may not even know why.
I can relate. Particularly the bias.
Originally Posted By: bblake1968
...Fact is, there could be 10,000 reasons why she DID love you, but, WAS/MLCer's tend to cling to just a few reasons why they should be angry. ...
Again, using my W as an example, when she finally came to me to discuss what her complaints were, I was dumbfounded how anyone could be THAT UNHAPPY for 24 years - she couldn't remember ANY good times. And I had no clue where to begin to fix the problem, since it seemed so all encompassing
My sitch too. W's interpretation of many parts of our life has me scratching my head.
